BEGINNINGS
I was born August 11, 1904 at home, 527 East 700 South in Salt
Lake City, the fourth child of John and Mary Gallacher following John
Henry, Mark and Anna. We lived in a little cottage that grandfather
Gallacher gave my mother and father for a wedding present. I grew up and
lived in that little cottage all my life.
I went to the Hamilton School and walked every day four blocks
with my two older brothers and one older sister. It was nice for me to
have older ones so I didn’t have to pioneer the way to a far distant
school. They all took my hand and led my way and let me know that it was
a friendly schools I never was afraid of starting school. I had fun at
the Hamilton School. My oldest brother, John, was in charge of the
athletics. He would encourage us all to race. He would go to each class
and pick the fastest runner, When I came to the third grade, I was the
fastest runners and he would, let me race with the other children. I
could race rather well because he had trained me. All the Gallachers
were athletic and the youngest brothers of my father (his mother had
fifteen children) were athletes at the LDS High School. All my own
brothers were very apt and capable.
When I was twelve years old, my brother Mark was the champion
runner for all the high schools and all the grade schools in the Salt
Lake Valley at age 16. But he overdid in his athletics, and ten days
after he turned sixteen, he died of leakage of the heart. As he was very
ill, we all took care of him the last summer he lived .
One day, my brother was to be married in my grandmother’s
beautiful big home, I was supposed to stay home and tend my brother Mark
as he was very sick. And I cried because I wanted to go to the wedding
at my grandmother’s home around the corner. But my brother pulled me
over to him on the bed and said to me, “Margie, you’ll never be
sorry.” And he died a week later.
I was never sorry. He knew he was going to die. It was such a sad
thing for me at twelve. I could hardly get through school that year. But
then we had to carry on; my mother was grieved terribly to lose a 16
year- old boy. But we had to carry on anyway.
The war came about shortly after that and my oldest brother went
to war. We had many, many,
sad experiences, but also many, many, happy ones.
Mother was a happy persons She was an elocutionist and she taught
us how to speak. She would read us lots of funny stories and dramatic
stories. She had gone to the university University of Utah for one year.
She took two subjects: sewing, or dressmaking, and Elocution. She
was always teaching us by her poetry.
Father had also gone one year and he had learned orthography,
which is really spelling in English, and one or two mathematics classes.
They thought one year at the university was enough. Then, my father went
into the restaurant business with his father. All our lives, we were
children of the restaurant business. Then my father got to run the
Hermitage in Ogden Canyon which all the honeymooners would go to after
they’d get married in Salt Lake. And
so as a little girls I got to live at the Hermitage.
Another year he got to be in charge of the restaurant for Mr.
Simon Bamburger at Lagoon, where they had a beautiful restaurant. Mr.
Bamburger built a little cottage next to the restaurant where Johnny
Gallacher and his family could live to run this restaurant. And out on
Lake Lagoon was a beautiful bunch of boats. My oldest brother was
supposed to tend us while mother took the cash in at the restaurants
CHILDHOOD
One day when I was about 4 years old, my brother was supposed to
tend me. He thought it might be nice to put me on the Merry-Go-Round. I
got free rides as long as it was on and it was horse drawn so it
didn’t go very fast. I was on a horse that didn’t move so he thought
I was safe, He came back in an hour to get me, and he couldn’t find me
anywhere and they looked and looked all over Lagoon, Held been out on
the lake with a girl who had come up from Salt Lake named LaVonne
Chandler who he wanted to show around the lake and the lagoon. They
thought I’d fallen in the lake, but I hadn’t. Guess where they found
me? I was under the Merry-Go-Round covered all over with dirt and rolled
over and over and over... I was unconscious. But mother was so terribly
practical. She had a doctor book. It said that when people get terribly
scratched and terribly dirty, all you do is scrub them with soap and
water and wrap them in gauze. And
so, that’s what she did.
But later on after I was married, I found out I had a broken jaw.
When I was 12 years old I had to have orthodontic work and they didn’t
know why my lower teeth went up over my upper teeth but it was because I
had a broken jaw which changed my bite pattern.
And anyway, for $35 a dentist in Salt Lake quickly straightened
my teeth. I worked hard all that summer and paid for it myself by being
a nursemaid of the little children of Mrs. Lovesy. Then when I was
married (to a doctor) and my husband took x‑rays (he wanted to
know why I had such a funny bite) he found out that I had had a broken
jaw and a skull fracture. I still have a big bump on my forehead where
my skull was fractured. I guess mother did the thing she thought best
for me ... let me lay quiet on a bed, and I seemed to survive. So, if my
grandchildren think I’m a little funny, it might be because I broke my
head when I was 4!!!
When I was in the third grade, I had scarlet fever
about at Christmastime. My older brother Mark had come home from school
with scarlet fever. Mark and I were the only ones in the family that got
it, and the rest of the family were quarantined out and they lived at my
grandmother’s, around the corner. Mother had a brand new baby and the
whole rest of the family lived at my grandmother’s.
There was a bright yellow orange flag on our front porch and it
said SCARLET FEVER, QUARANTINED FOR 30 DAYS, So I got acquainted with my
brother Mark who I loved so dearly. We had good times. He carved me a
doll out of wood from the kindling box at Christmastime and that was all
I got that year. But the ward choir came over on Christmas eve and sang
carols to us and brought lovely food to us so that we didn’t feel that
we were left out. In all my
childhood life I was happy and had so many nice brothers and sisters. At
nights they would all study around the round table in the dining room.
FATHER
My father worked all night long a lot of the time managing a big
restaurant in Salt Lake called Finch and Rodgers. He sold out his share
of his father’s business to his brother-in-law named Al Pritchard
previously. He worked 12 hours, from 8 at night until 8 in the morning.
The restaurant was very fashionable, but it was open all night long, We
didn’t see much of him, so my mother raised us and she was such a good
one to teach poems, help us with school and church work. She got us to
go to church regularly. She
was president of the MIA for 12 years. On Saturday afternoons my father
gave all his time to us and we’d go to Beck’s Hot Springs. We
learned to dive from our father’s shoulders. We’d jump in and swim
the little distance to him. We never got to be good swimmers, but we
loved it. We could swim back to dad. We would get back to mother and she
would have our high-buttoned shoes all polished with jet oil and all our
Sunday clothes washed and ironed and ready for Sunday meetings, We went
starched and prettied up to Sunday School. After I got scarlet fever, I
got a mastoid, and for one year I couldn’t go to school. I felt so bad
because I didn’t get promoted because I didn’t go to school that
year. I worked awfully hard
from then on, and got to be the highest in the class in fourth, fifth
and sixth grades.
YOUTH
When I went to junior high I took French and I got the lead in the
French play. The war was still on in 1917 and at Summer School, we put
on a French play to raise money for the war effort. “Madame DuMar”
brought hundreds of people from all over. We rented the 2nd ward
amusement hall and made $400, enough to buy several knitting machines to
knit socks for the soldiers which we had previously been doing by hand.
And so, we were able to have a lovely experience there.
I
graduated from junior high school with a double promotion so I was able
to enter West High School with a lot of the girls from our neighborhood
who were my same age, We decided to go to West High because they offered
a business course along with our regular high school courses. They
offered shorthand and type and very good business subjects. We used to
take the streetcar to West High. The streetcar had a track down the
middle of the street to run on and on top of the trolley car there was a
rope attached to a little wheel that contacted overhead power wires held
in place by telephone poles about six to every city block. All the
trolleys were taken to Trolley Square near our home on 6th East and 6th
South at midnight. You call
it Trolley Square even now, but we called it the "car barns"
in those days. Then the motormen and the conductors would walk to
Trolley Square to start the trolleys at 6 a.m. for men to go to work We
had service every 20 minutes on our 5th East line from Liberty Park, up
through town and up to Fort Douglas Chapel. We would transfer downtown
when we would go to school to a trolley car that took us to the old West
High School.
HIGH SCHOOL
But the big epidemic of the flu came on us that
fall (1918) and I was only 13 and was in high school. But, they closed
the high school down because of the terrible influenza epidemic. People
were dying right and left. One evening on our block, five people died of
influenza. We had no antibiotics and they died of acute pneumonia with
that terrible influenza. My father’s sister Maude died.
My parents had gone to visit her, and the doctors were all so
tired out with all the sick people.
My Uncle Al begged her, “Maude, please don’t die and leave me
with all these little children to rear!”
But she died that night. Mother thought that we children should
all do our part and tend those who were sick, so she let me go out into
the neighborhood and tend families where all the whole family was
stricken. At 13, I was able to nurse Mrs. Berkeley, who lived a half a
block away and their 3 little children. They all had the pneumonia and
the daddy had died and the mother was still awfully sick and had the
three little children so mother sent me up there. They all got well.
Mother would make hot broth and squeeze orange juice and I would get it
from my home every day. I would feed it to them, and hold their heads
while they vomited. They
were vomiting red blood and it was so sad to see them suffer so and I
grew to be very strong in that I could face sickness and not be afraid.
I was blessed in that the Lord didn’t let me get influenza even though
I was close to it. There were others that helped out when I was just a
teen-age girl.
I went all through high school with one winter dress and one
summer dress. I would wash my summer dress out at night and starch it.
In those days we didn’t have permanent press.
We had such hard clothing to iron. But I had a lovely pink and
white striped dress with a very high waist and it was long to my ankles.
The first year of high school I wore high lace up shoes that laced up to
my leg about 12 to 15 inches and I wore long black cotton stockings and
black bloomers. After I got into my last year of high school we had a
dear friend named Mrs. Lovesy who had no children. She adopted two
little girls. She would bring beautiful clothes to my sister Anna and me
so that we would have pretty clothes for high school. She kept me in
pretty rose colored skirts, but they were still so long they reached the
tops of my shoes. I
graduated from high school in a dress that was a short dress. But my
mother made me a beautiful graduation dress.
Because I liked pink so much, she made it out of pink chiffon and
lined it with taffeta. It had an overskirt with ruffles around it. My
mother made it so beautifully.
By then I was going with Vernon Derrick from the First Ward.
He took me to many beautiful Sunday night parties in his ward.
His ward’s group was Max Christensen, and Lawrence and Hal Richmond
and Rudi Ericksen and they had their separate girls. The boys would take
us to each others’ homes to have refreshments after we played Sunday
night games and told jokes, after attending night meetings in the First
Ward. That was the way we were courted. We just didn’t go during the
week to a show, but Sunday nights we would have these dates. Once in a
while the boys would take us down to the 8th South and 5th East after
Sunday night meeting and treat us to ice cream. We’d have an ice cream
soda for 10 cents and a fudge nut sundae for 15 cents and it was good
homemade ice cream and homemade fudge topping too. You got a lot for
your money in those days.
My sister Anna always seemed to have lots of beaus.
It seemed like I was always the one left doing all the chores at
home when she would leave to have fun with the boys.
One day I said to mo mother, “Why does Anna get all the beaus
when I’m the nicest!!?”
WORLD WAR I
My oldest brother Henry served in WWI along with
many of our neighbors and friends. My husband and his two brothers,
Verne and Harold also. They had several stars in the service flag in
their window showing how many were in the armed service. They had three
stars in their flag and one was a gold star. That was for his brother
Verne. We named our own first son after that brother that my husband
dearly loved. Everyone put their shoulders to the wheel to win that war.
I was only 14 years old when it was over but I can remember it well.
Before we had a telephone we would be awakened in the night by
newsboys walking in the streets and yelling, “Extra, extra, read about
the new casualty list,” We had no way of knowing what Utah man or men
were in the casualty lists except by these extra papers.
We were all excited and scared and fearful. But we were all
united. We thought our country was fighting to preserve democracy. It
was a world war – yes –
a war to end all wars. My father bought liberty bonds though we could
not afford them. All the children bought 25 cent thrift savings stamps,
and that was giving it to the government and holding it until the war
ended. All of this was war
effort. I won a $5
thrift stamp savings book in a junior high school contest for the best
slogan to help sell more thrift stamps.
In the President’s cabinet was a man named Mac Adoo who wanted
children to help sell more thrift stamps. My winning slogan was this,
“three nickels, a dime or a quarter will do, to buy a thrift stamps to
help Mae Adoo.” Food was hard to get as so much was needed for the
boys in the services. My
mother won a prize for a wartime fruitcake recipe. It was called
“eggless butterless sugarless fruitcake.” It was mostly whole wheat
flour, raisins, molasses, honey and malt. We still use that fruitcake
recipe to this day. Ruth has it and
serves it hot right out of the oven. We did not have a cow, but
got skim milk from the diary for 5cents a gallon. After school, I’d
take two pails and go to McCann’s dairy 2 or 3 blocks away and brought
back the milk. The buckets were filled with fresh milk and we’d drink
it all up because we didn’t have a refrigerator.
WAR EFFORTS
Instead of having mutual, Mary Leatham who was
mutual president, would have the mutual girls make bandages for the
soldiers. She told me if I wanted to have piano lessons, I should go
early and scrub the oilcloth tables where we folded the bandages. (I had
two lessons, but I was too old and too busy earning good grades in
school to pursue it further). We all brought clean kitchen table knives
and pressed the gauze bandages into the folds that they were supposed to
be in and there were so many of each kind. They would take the stacks
and stacks we would finish to another place for more sterilizing, be
packaged, and sent off to the boys at the front.
When the war ended we had a wonderful experience. It was such a
fun time. We thought it was such a relief to know the war was ended,
November 11, 1918. The schools were all closed because of the epidemic
and so for that month, my sister Anna and I worked in the knitting
factory which was a block or so from the school. Mr. Jones, the
neighbor, hired us and we inspected the knitted goods and put them in
boxes. When the war ended, the boys from our neighborhood who delivered
for the knitting factory, got us in a truck and we sat in the back and
drove through all the streets of the city and we pounded cans and things
and everybody was so excited and made all sorts of noises as if they
were having a great big celebration. It was a wonderful day!
At that time, our oldest brother was in the war.
His wife was living with us and expecting a baby and she went
into labor – false labor
from the excitement. A
couple of weeks later she gave birth to a little nephew, little Jackie
Gallacher. And it so happened that Jackie was reared by my mother
because my brother’s wife was a Catholic and she wanted to go be with
the Catholic people in California. She
didn’t want the baby so she gave my mother the baby and so he grew up
like our little brother. He grew up to be a man and studied medicine in
California and at the age of 33 he died after heart surgery which he had
had as a result of a kidney infection which he had had since childhood.
HIGH SCHOOL GRADUATION
I got to be President of the West High School
Tennis Club. I also wrote
the words for our high school graduation class song. These are some of
the words that I remember:
“Farewell West High, Your memory through life
unto us will be
Our hope, our aim to prove true, since the day we
bad adieu.” That was the
chorus.
The first verse went like this –
“Our school days so pleasant with youthful joys
We call old chums both girls and boys.
We cannot forget the true high school friend
Though far away he may send.”
The high school English students who were
graduating were asked to write words that matched a popular song,
“Mello Cello Melody.” My words seemed to fit the song the best. We
all sang it at our graduation exercises, and they were sung for years
afterward.
Then as I went I finished a business course and graduated from
West High School and on my graduation day my girlfriends and I went out
and got positions but I worked for Billings Stenographic Bureau in the
summertime. I addressed envelopes and took dictation over Dictaphones.
During high school I did have two dates. One was the boys dance my
Senior year and a boy named Vern Derrick in the First Ward took me.
I took him later to the girls dance and that is the extent of my
dating in high school. But I had the fun that one has with lots of good
girlfriends and we went to all the high school games and to the ballet
at the famous Salt Lake Theater and it was only 25 cents to go to
“nigger heaven” which was the fourth circle up and we would go on
Saturday afternoons for a quarter. We
would see some of the best plays – “Mitzi,” and “Tea for Two”
and all the marvelous plays that were acted by New York stage actors.
There was “Indian Love Call” and it was a beautiful experience to go
to that beautiful Salt Lake Theater, even from the fourth circle up! We
would look down and see the beautiful plays the visiting New York
companies would put on during their week long visit.
GALLACHER GRANDPARENTS
My father never owned a car when I was home. He got
one when I was married, the same year that he died. But his father, my
grandfather, got the first Apperson car sold in Salt Lake City. My
Grandfather Gallacher was quite a wealthy man and he had to have the
best and the firstest. In those days the Apperson car cost $5,000 and it
was as big as a Cadillac. They had always had a large barnful of nice
horses for their children to ride. The girls all had sidesaddles and
rode around Liberty Park. They also had a beautiful big black surrey
with fringe on top. I used to take my little red chair and sit between
the front and back seat when my grandmother and grandfather would ride
around Liberty Park, every Sunday night after night meeting. I remember
that well, because they always wanted me to ride and there was always
room for me.
Those two dear grandparents were generous Scotch people. They
shared everything they enjoyed with others, and they never kept things
all to themselves. I listened intently to grandmother’s conversations
with the dear old ladies . . . Sister Woolenbeck, and Sister Corbett and
relatives they would treat to Sunday night buggy rides. They talked of
who was in love with who or who had been married, born, or buried.
The rides in the new Apperson car were not as much fun as we
thought they would be. We often had a flat tire. Grandfather fixed them,
but there was only one paved road and that was 5th East from South
Temple down to 9th South through the park.
They were dusty, dusty, dusty, dusty roads most of the time. Once
grandfather ran out of spare tires and we bumped home on the rim of the
worn out tire. Every pedestrian would point and say, “Hey mister,
you’ve got a flat tire on your back wheel. And grandfather didn’t
like it at all. People would say to him, “Get a horse, get a horse.”
He finally did get his horse out of the barn and take the surrey out
instead of the car.
Every Thanksgiving night, all the cousins of the Gallachers would
gather on my Grandfather Gallacher’s big veranda front porch, and we
would sing “Over the River and Through the Woods to Grandmother’s
House We Go.” We thought it was fun to surprise them and we hid in the
bushes until they would come out to see who was singing. Then we would
be invited in for Thanksgiving turkey dinner. Grandfather owned one of
the first big restaurants on Main Street that was called the Saddle Rock
Café where the Tribune Building now stands. He was a wonderful cook.
All his 13 married children and their husbands, wives, and children sat
at a long table and an extension table through the arch from the dining
room to the parlor. They had the drumsticks and the breasts and the meat
of the turkey and all the children sat at a long table in the huge
kitchen. We had the wings and the neck and the legs with gravy and
dumplings and mashed potatoes. The desserts were pies and Scotch
short‑bread. We were loved!! The children performed in the parlor
reciting verses and playing piano pieces and singing or trying to do the
Highland Fling or the sword dance as our dear Grandfather could do and
tried to teach us. He had his own Scottish kilt and he had the Stuart
plaid on. It was a marvelous memory to me.
GRANDMOTHER MAGDALENA SCHNEIDER REISER & GRANDFATHER HENRY
REISER
I want to tell about my grandmother Magdalena
Schneider who joined the Church. She
lived in Berne Switzerland and was a school teacher in the Lutheran
Church. One day she was going home from school and she saw some
missionaries and she and her friend, Elizabeth Galli listened to the
missionaries and she and her friend would do this every once in a while
after they’d teach school. They
joined the Mormon Church without telling their parents.
When Magdalena’s mother and father found out that she had
joined the Mormon Church they told their minister that ran the school
and he tried to make Magdalena leave the Church.
He told her she had to choose between the Mormon Church and the
Lutheran Church. She chose
the Mormon Church and said that she’d been a member for some time and
that she wouldn’t give it up.
Then they tried to make her choose between the Church and her home
and she chose to leave her home. She moved to France and was a governess
for children in a family. She
tried to earn enough money to try to come to America, but she couldn’t
earn enough money to do so. Finally, the missionaries there told her
about a wonderful opportunity to come to Utah accompanying a crippled
lady and taking care of her cow. When they got as far as Florence,
Nebraska on the train, they stopped and bought all the equipment
necessary to join the company that was coming to Utah.
She was to take care of a cow that was to be tied to the back of
the wagon of this crippled
woman and her brother. She followed them and walked
a great deal of the thousand miles between Florence, Nebraska and Salt
Lake City. She arrived in the valley safely without harm but she did
have two or three near escapes. Indians
had their eyes on the cow and on the pretty girl that was watching it
because she loitered way behind the camp. One time by a brook where
there were a lot of Indians, they almost took her but a man rode back on
horseback and helped her get back to the camp so she wasn’t harmed by
Indians.
When she lived in Salt Lake at first she spoke only German so she
couldn’t teach. During
that time, she helped people by being a
governess of children. She
met a convert to the Church who had come a year before named Henry
Reiser.
He was the first Jeweler in the state of Utah.
Brigham Young gave him land on the corner of First South and Main
Street to set up a shop for jewelry.
He had come from Zurich, Switzerland where he had learned to be a
watchmaker. He was married
to a lovely woman who had two little boys. Her boys were young when they
finally got enough money saved to come to Utah.
On the trip across the ocean, she lost her little boys. One was
buried at sea and one was buried on Staten Island.
Typhoid fever broke out on the sailboat that they came across on
to Utah. Then she learned that she could never have any more children.
This woman made acquaintance with Magdalena when she came to
Utah. The two women became well acquainted and she talked my grandmother
into marrying Henry Reiser in polygamy.
She said, “If you will marry my husband and have children and
let me help you rear them, I will encourage this marriage.” So
Magdalena married Henry Reiser in 1861 and this first wife helped my
grandmother rear her children. This
woman, Susanna Rupp died in 1874, 13 years later, and my grandmother was
the senior wife. Then Henry Reiser was asked to go back to Switzerland
and he converted 100 people from Zurich. Then he came back to Utah and
continued as a prominent Utah watchmaker.
Magdalena had a daughter named Josephine, and then
she had a son named Albert Schneider Reiser, and then she had my mother,
the last of all her children, and she was born in 1875 in Salt Lake
City, right across the street from the old Pioneer Park which was called
the Old Fort. Grandfather Reiser built two houses there – one for his
first wife and one for my grandmother. She bore eight children, and only
three of them lived through the second summer. They didn’t have
refrigeration and she couldn’t nurse her babies and so she lost them
with summer complaint and things like that. My mother grew up very happy
in a home where grandfather had three wives, There were three little
homes side by side and they would play with the other children and have
their little cousins and they had their “cousins” for their best
friends. Mother always said that polygamy was well lived in her
father’s household. He was equal and never unfair with any one of
them. They never quarreled. Mother
never let us say anything against polygamy, although in our day we
thought it terrible to have polygamy, but not in her situation. Well,
Mother grew to be 12 years old and then her mother died. Her older
brother married and lived in the home and she lived with her older
brother and his wife.
When mother was 19 she married John James Gallacher whose father
owned the first restaurant on Main Street. He was the oldest son of John
Gallacher and Annie Impey Gallacher, converts from Scotland and England.
They had a big wedding at their new home at 661 South 500 East, a big 20
room home. They served 8 courses to 500 guests because Grandfather
Gallacher was a very prominent businessman and had all his business
friends come to the wedding. They served oysters on the half shell and
had them shipped in by railroad from California. They served the other 8
courses on the lawns on their beautiful home. Mother’s oldest boy was
John Henry Gallacher. John,
after her husbands father, and Henry, after her own father. But after
John Henry was born, Mother and Father decided that father should go on
a mission. He went to the southern states mission. He was in Galveston,
Texas at the time of the terrible Galveston flood. They had to
administer help to the people who were caught in that terrible flood.
But he returned and then they had Mark, who was about 7 years younger
then her oldest child. Then she had Anna, and then she had me.
YOUTHFUL FUN
When I was young I had two sisters who could play
the piano well, Anna and Ruth. They
could play all the latest songs. We all stood around the piano and sang
songs. At mutual, we would have dances every Tuesday night and an
orchestra would come and play and we would just go to mutual and
afterwards we could stay. My first dance was with a boy named Milt
Iverson, and I didn’t even know how to waltz. The first waltz that
came he asked me to dance. Poor
boy, he really suffered but he asked me again, so I guess he made it
through. Then we went on to the beautiful songs that were sweet “A
kiss in the dark was to him just a lark but to me was a moment
supreme” and “Over there, over there, send the word, we’ll be
there” during the war.
There was “A baby’s prayer at twilight” and
many sad ones, and many happy ones to help cheer boys. The war was
imminent and we wanted to win that war. It was a terrible war. But we
all put our shoulders to the wheel and America was a wonderful country.
America was a country that got behind the war – especially the Second
World War. But America went through periods where there were wars that
weren’t popular – the Korean War and the Vietnam War. We didn’t
have a real cause and we didn’t feel like we won those wars. But when
they were won America was proud.
After my one experience with Milt Iverson, I
decided I was going to be a good dancer. So, I went to dancing school
and learned to do the Charleston, and I was very good at it. If you
could see me now I could almost step it off. And it was fun and
everywhere we went we sang and danced Charleston dances and then formal
dancing –
the tango was really good.
I went for a while with Lew Elggren who was our bishop’s son,
and he was a beautiful dancer. I
didn’t like him but I surely liked to dance with him. He’d do the
hesitation and he’d do a backbend and sway me back and forth and OOOH
that was beautiful. . . One
time I went with a man named Jewel Trowbridge
to the dance halls out at Saltair.
SALTAIR
Saltair was a big pavillion and it was a beautiful
resort out on top of the water built on piers. The biggest open air
dance hall in the world was out on that big pavillion. While I was out
there I’d dance with different boys from our ward –
we’d have ward outings. I never just danced with just anybody,
but I knew all the boys that I danced with, but we never went with
partners. We just went on an open car. The railroad that went out there
was called the Saltair Railroad and they’d have 10 to 12 open cars
just with no sides on them, just benches, one right after another, maybe
40 benches on each car. We would be so crowded that we’d fill every
car on every train. When
we’d get out there we’d swim for 25 cents in long black bathing
suits. Our bathing suits had
long black bloomers, with long black sleeves and
we’d all wear bathing caps because the salt water has 22% salt
and we’d have to keep the salt out of our hair or else it would go
stiff with so much salt. We’d swim for a long time and then we’d go
back under the pavilion under the dance floor where there were lots of
tables and we could take our lunches.
We’d have homemade root beer and sandwiches and fruit.
We also had our ward dances at Saltair.
I remember a very embarrassing incident. The leader of the
orchestra that came to our ward was a handsome boy. He looked like he
was Italian and he had shiny black hair slicked back into a pompadour.
He wore a tight fitted jacket and led an eight
piece orchestra, which we could get for something like $2 a man
and we thought that was great. One day we planned a marvelous basket
lunch. My mother was president of the mutual so she had me make the most
beautiful basket. It was a basket that Concord grapes come in –
it was long and narrow and it had a little handle that went over
the top of it. I trimmed it
with shirred pink crepe paper and I made it ruffle, ruffle, and ruffle,
from the top to the bottom of it, and across the handles.
I put chicken salad sandwiches and slices of cheese and cakes and
cookies and fruit in it. It
was the most beautiful basket! My mother was so proud of me for fixing
it.
They put my basket up last to be bid on by the boys
in the ward. Every other
basket had been bid on from up to a dollar.
Some of them went for 25 cents. Some went for 50. And the girl
who got a $1 – that girl really felt like the ward had made a lot of
money off her. When my basket came up it was more fancy than the others
and the leader of the band bid on it. But he didn’t know the rules –
whoever bid on it had to eat the lunch with the girl who packed
it. He had his girl there – off
to one side away from the band on the stage and he bid $4 for my
basket!! The price went up and up and up and everybody bid on it, the
bishop and everybody, but he bid $4 and he got the basket. Then, I ran
and hid so he wouldn’t find me because everyone knew that his girl was
there. He found out that I had packed the basket and he went to the
bishop and said to find the little girl who packed the basket and tell
her to choose one of the boys in the ward and eat it with him, but that
he was going home with his girl. He was a great guy!
My father operated the first big café at Saltair..
He was known as amiable Johnny Gallacher. His restaurant was called
“The Ship’s Café.” He brought crabs to his fine restaurant and
the young stylish couples went to Saltair and ate at his restaurant and
then they went to the dance pavilion to dance,
While my father ran the café, my mother would often take all
seven of us children to Saltair. We had family reunions and picnics
after swimming there too. We rode a giant roller coaster and went in the
fun house when we were teenagers. We took a streetcar to the Saltair
Depot from our home to the open air cars. It cost us only 25 cents round
trip and included entrance
into the gates at Saltair.
Our bathing caps were made of big round circles of oilcloth with
elastic around the edges and it kept the salt out of our long braids and
our curls. Of course we all learned to float with our heads high and
bent forward. It seemed we stayed hours in the waters, it was so
pleasant and cooling. We met many friends and laughed and rested on the
water with our big black bloomered bathing suits puffed out about us.
When we were through, each dressing room was equipped with a shower so
we could clean up for a night of fun at the concessions and watching the
dancers after the picnic. The wind would blow through the whole dance
hall and cool us. I would often watch my father and mother dance. He was
a wonderful waltzer! He even used to take prizes for his waltzing. We
were not anxious to go home to our hot houses without air conditioning,
when we could watch others dancing to the lilting sounds of Ern
Sweeten’s dance orchestra.. There were two brothers who had the
orchestras out there, and they were famous. We were sleepy and sticky
from eating candy and mother pushed us and pulled us onto the open cars
that took us back to Salt Lake City and our hot little cottages that we
called home.
MY BUSINESS CAREER
As I graduated from high school, my mother went off
for a visit to her friends in the Northwest, where our bishop had been
called to be president of the Northwestern States Mission. His name was
Heber C. Iverson and all that summer they wanted mother up at the
mission home. So, I took charge of our little family.
My older sister Anna got married that year.
My brother Stuart and my sisters Ruth and Berta were in my charge
and I stayed in my grandmother’s house around the corner while mother
was away. At the end of the
summer the principal of West High School where I graduated called me and
told me that they wanted me to be the stenographer for the Orem Railroad
(the Salt Lake and Utah Railroad) and there I found that I had a
wonderful opportunity to grow and get a knowledge of business and how it
was carried on. I was really
delighted, although the pay wasn’t the best.
They sent me from the school saying that I was one of their
graduates who could really use her head. I wasn’t the fastest typist
or the fastest taking shorthand but I was accurate and my judgment was
good. Then I went to work for that railroad and stayed there seven years
.
I was finally secretary to the President, Mr.
Walter Orem, and to the Treasurer, Mr. Frank Orem. They had a little
railroad from SLC down to Payson and over to Magna. It was an electric
railroad and it shipped the produce from Utah county down to Salt Lake
County where it was always used. During
the seven years, every year I had a month’s vacation with pay and I
could get transportation on any railroad or steamship but I had to get
back in a month to resume my position. I got to go to California two or
three times, and down to Florida, to Mexico, up to Canada through the
Canadian Rockies. And I even went on a steamship up to Skagway, Alaska
and traveled on a narrow gauge railroad all through Alaska and saw the
beautiful country.
The last two years I was asked by our bishop to keep my brother
Stuart on a mission to Germany. Then the railroad didn’t do so well;
it was having competition with the trucking companies that didn’t have
to keep up a right of ways. All
they had to do was to keep good trucks and they could ride on the
highways. Near the end of my stay at the railroad I went on a trip to
New York. I had a girlfriend named Mildred Peterson and she was on a
mission in New York and I promised I’d see here there which I did.
When I did try to be with Mildred, I got on a boat in New York harbor
and went up to Boston Harbor an a night boat one Sunday after
conference, at the New York Brooklyn Mormon chapel. Mildred got on my
boat; she heard I was looking for her but I missed her in New York
although she searched the boat for me and we both tried to make
connections. My friend, Maude Ackroid and I had gone to our stateroom
and we missed her. We went to Boston on that pleasure boat and had a
beautiful trip. When we got to Boston we took a parlor car to New
Hampshire where we were met by my aunt, Bessie Gallacher who was my
father’s sister. She was married to Schyler Constant and her
husband’s sister was a millionaire and they owned the Onyx Hosiery.
They had vast estates; a thousand acres of land in New Hampshire,
beautiful land that went all the way up to Mt. Washington. They took us
in an open convertible all through New England for the next day or two.
Then we came back to their beautiful home. We had the guest rooms and
maid service and we thought we were very., very lucky to be in her
beautiful home. The maids would even come in in the evening and bring
gingerale and cookies for us to snack on after formal dinners. They had
a wonderful long table where many people could dine –
relatives that came and stayed and visited.
They had formal waiters that waited on us! We felt like we had
really “been in the money” that week.
However, we came back to the dull reality of life.
But it wasn’t really dull. We came back on the train to Salt
Lake City and I began working to support Stuart on his mission in
Germany. He was first stationed in Southern Germany. He sent back many
pictures of the beautiful Bavarian Alps. Stuttgart was his first city
and then Hamburg and towards the last in Nuremberg and up into
Wilhelmshaven even up North. Now
that’s divided into 2 or 3 nations but that was a huge mission at the
time. He was supposed to go
to Switzerland, and Hugh Jo Cannon was President of the Swiss German
Mission. He was a dear
friend of my mother and my uncle Albert Reiser and he saw to it that
Stuart got to travel after his mission and he traveled through
Switzerland and Italy and France and other parts of Germany and England
before he returned from his mission. By the time he returned home from
his mission, my sweetheart Albert Peterson had planned for us to be
married. We asked Stuart to be the best man at the wedding.
MEETING MY HUSBAND
I first met my husband when I was twelve years old.
I was a pretty good ice skater. I would always go skating with my friend
Mildred Peterson. But I
wanted to skate long after dark. I lived two blocks away from Liberty
Park ice lake where we ice skated. But
Mildred would assure my mother that her big brother who went to the
University and was graduating that year would come down after his
classes at the U of U and ice skate with us. He would let us hold onto
his hands in chain fashion and he would skate us around the lake so fast
that we thought it was wonderful. He had a big block “U” on his
sweater. He was an athlete
– a football player and a
track man. We were thrilled to be able to go around the lake with him!
Nobody else but his sister Mildred and I could skate that fast with him.
Little did he know that little freckled faced girl with braids was the
girl he would marry twelve years later. But he did and I was mighty glad
because I loved him dearly! I will always remember that occasion which
he didn’t remember for a long time until I reminded him.
Let me tell you a little about my husband, James
Albert Peterson. He was a
graduate of the University of Utah in 1916.
He taught High School in Tooele and at Rexburg High School in
Idaho. He was an officer, a
lieutenant, in World War I, in the machine gun division.
He graduated from Officers Training School in Fort Benning,
Georgia. When the war ended he returned to teaching high school in
Rexburg, Idaho and he lived with a Dr. Stanley there.
The doctor talked him into studying medicine so he went back to
pre‑med school at the University of Utah and then entered their 2-year
medical school. When he finished there, he transferred to the George
Washington Medical School in Washington D.C.
He paid for his own medical school tuition and living expenses.
He worked eight hours every night as night elevator man in the
U.S. Senate office building. He
got to know many senators who came back to their offices to study and
work with committees. He
had his own desk in the basement by the elevator where he could study.
His last year he lived right in George Washington Hospital and
served as an extern. Then he
was an intern and resident and then returned to Salt Lake City in 1925
and moved in with his parents who were also in our ward.
His father and sister both encouraged him to take me out, Our
first date was to a wedding in our ward.
He was slow but persistent in his courting. I sometimes had to
wait several weeks between dates but it was worth it!!!
His first kiss came after many, many dates. We went to a Daughters
of the Utah Pioneers dance in the ward. He was a doctor and always late
for his dates. Mother had made me a beautiful pioneer costume.
Everyone had gone on to the dance and I was home alone waiting
for him. When he saw me he must have thought I looked lovely because he
said “OOOHHH!!!” and pulled me to him, and kissed me on the
forehead. Boy, was I
thrilled ! He was so handsome –
tall and dark and with such chiseled features.
From then on, he picked me up for work in the
mornings and took me home at night.
He drove a beautiful Dodge coupe. One night when his Dodge was in
the garage being repaired we were walking home from work along 3rd East.
He showed me an empty lot across the street from the Sumner
School. He said, “I’m going to build a duplex here.”
I asked, “Who is going to live in it?” He said, “You and
me. . .” And that
was my proposal of marriage. Then
he pinned his fraternity pin on me.
We were
pinned from 1925 to 1928. Once in a while, an old beau of mine would
come to the office to talk during my lunch hour. One time he wanted to
have lunch with me. I said I’d have to ask my steady beau. When I
asked Dr. Peterson, he said, “Okay but you won’t see me anymore.”
So that was that!
We were married in the Salt Lake LDS Temple,
June 6, 1928. We planned a beautiful wedding. We had 500 guests
at the Covenant House for our reception which is now the LDS Business
College – the beautiful
Colonel Wall’s home on South Temple and about 3rd
or 4th East.
In the mean time, he had started to build a duplex on a lot that
his father had given him for a wedding present.
It is now known as 643, 647 South 3rd East. We picked our own
fireplace with plaques of pioneers in tile above it. We ordered all the
lumber through the railroad and Morris and Merrill and the brick was
from Henefer where my sister Anna lived.
The men were given their contracts from my husband’s father and
he was retired and lived a block away at 753 South 300 East.
He would come up every day and keep the workmen working.
Dr. Peterson was struggling to make a start of his practice as a
young physician and surgeon. He kept his office always at 903 Boston
Building where he was associated with Dr. Roy Groesbeck, a surgeon, and
Dr. Samuel Paul, the school city doctor, and Dr. Green who was a
dentist. He set up his practice and was quite well established by the
time we were married, June 6, 1928.
Our honeymoon was out of this world! We went on a train down to
San Francisco. Then we
transferred to the boat the “Yale” and sailed down to Los Angeles
and San Diego where we were met by my cousin Dorothy Gallacher Bjarnson,
who was also a newlywed. We
were their house guests for two weeks at their beautiful new home. We
traveled to other cities and sights in California and to the beaches and
had a grand time. We sailed
back to San Francisco on the “Harvard.”
In 1929 a terrible financial crash began the Depression.
It hit the whole United States; it hit the whole world. We felt
it keenly. Banks failed
right and left. People could
not get their money out of the bank. Finally we listened over our radio
to President Franklin D. Roosevelt who gave us a fireside chat and told
us that there was nothing to fear but fear itself. He closed all banks
in the United States for a week so we had no choice. We had to trust
each other. We traded services. My
husband had to deliver babies and give the mother and baby after care
for six weeks for a $25 charge, not to be paid in cash but trade. We
bought things mostly by trading services.
He performed his services so reasonably and we
traded services because people didn’t have the money to pay doctors.
There were not any insurance companies to help us earn our money so we
had lean years those years after 1929 until 1933 when things began to
pick up. Many a baby he
delivered for $25 and many a tonsil he took out for $12.50 and many an
appendectomy for $50. And even then it was trading services. . .
But there were many poor people. Too
many as a result of the depression. They would come back and come back.
A woman would have 5 babies and never even have the first one
paid for. But he said, “I have faith in people.” And he really did.
They came back and paid most of their bills.
He said, “You just have to have faith in people and give people
your services and give it willingly.”
This he did and he loved being a doctor. He loved every minute of
his life of service as a physician and surgeon.
After we were married, we were two years before we
had any children. I worked after we were married as secretary to
Governor George H. Dern who was governor of the state of Utah. I worked
in the Utah State Capitol until 3 months before Margie was born.
I weighed 108 pounds when I got married and gained 22 pounds
during my first pregnancy. Governor Dern was chosen by President
Franklin D. Roosevelt to be Secretary of War during the depression
years. He decided to
organize the CCC camp because of so many unemployed young men. This was
the Civilian Conservation Camp and was an excellent way to get all those
young men actively working in Public Works Association projects. They
worked for a dollar a day and were a uniform with CCC on the sleeve.
CHILDREN
MARGIE
My oldest was Marjorie Yvonne who was born January
20, 1930 at the LDS hospital and was delivered by Dr. Roy Groesbeck. I
had a long, hard 3 days of labor but she came into the world a beautiful
baby. We enjoyed her a lot.
Then I had Verne Albert on March 30, 1931. And then I had Fred,
August 13, 1933. That was
all the family I had, but they were a great joy to me. They were pretty
little brown-eyed children and they played together beautifully. We
outgrew the little duplex on 3rd East.
We were still in the state of depression in 1933, but our dear
friend Parley Eccles told us of a big home on the corner of Douglas
Street and 2nd South a block from the University.
He said, “That home has the prettiest view in Salt Lake, but it
needs remodeling. But if you buy that you’ll be happy there.” And
so, Dr. Peterson went over and looked it over and decided it was what he
wanted.
He had it changed from a big old gay 90's home into a colonial
home that looked like Mt. Vernon. It
had 12 big white pillars and a big veranda on the upper story and it was
about a 15 room home. It was well built
– it was made of
adobe and was faced with redwood facing on the outside painted white
with green shutters like the colonial homes. We lived there and enjoyed
the beautiful view.
We enjoyed our membership in the University Ward where Albert was
for 5 or 6 years superintendent of the Sunday School.
The first year I lived up there I was president of the Primary
and I worked in Primary all my life. I never wanted to be anything but a
Primary teacher. I loved little children. I worked with them all my
days, in fact just last year in 1977 I quit teaching primary because I
had pain in my knees and couldn’t get back and forth. But I loved to
teach – Trailbuilders the
first year and I had lot of boys who I worked with. I took them on hikes
and enjoyed it. Then I taught the Homemaking group for years and then I
taught the 7 and 8-year olds – the
CTR group. The last 10 or 15
years I have taught lessons to CHOOSE THE RIGHT.
We moved from our home on 12th East and 2nd South
during the year that our two boys were in the Korean War.
We moved to 2021 Wasatch Drive which is about 21st South and
Wasatch Boulevard. Our little Marjorie had her three lovely children;
her oldest, Diana Sue, then a little boy James Peter who died after 4
months with a bad heart at birth. (We learned later that if he had been
born years later he could have had heart surgery and been well.) But he
was a beautiful little boy who looked like Diana with dark eyes and dark
hair and a beautiful face. And
it was sad to lose that little boy I’ll tell you. He had to be in
oxygen all the time for those 4 months. Then she had Ricky who was
Richard Gilbert.
Then next was David Brett. Then they went to Africa with her
husband Dr. Richard Gilbert Barton who had to give two years to the
service after finishing medicine and practicing a short time. The
military required them to give two years of time.
He thought he was going to Germany and so Margie bought all the
children heavy clothing. When
his assignment was changed at the last minute, they sent them quickly
instead to Africa – Nouasseur Air Force Base near Casablanca, Morocco.
He was the obstetrician for that Air Force base and delivered all the
babies for all the Americans there.
Margie and Dick got to go to the opening of the Swiss Temple and
saw many people who came to Switzerland to see the dedication of the
temple. They took their
little children – Diana,
Rick, and David all across
Europe and enjoyed the sights. They also got to go to Portugal. When
they were dismissed from their services overseas they were able to take
a cruise on the Mediterranean Sea on a ship that took them to the coast
cities of Italy and Greece and North Africa and then they came home by
boat to the USA. They had flown over by airplane going into Nouasseur
AFB near Casablanca but when they came home they went home by boat.
Their hands were full because those little boys were a handful. The
little girl would watch her step but to watch little children on a boat
crossing the ocean, that was really a task. They shipped their car over
to NY harbor and there they picked their car up and drove up through New
England and up to Michigan to see my brother Stuart where he was
professor of German languages at Michigan State University at East
Lansing.
They came slowly back home and lived at Dick’s parents home for
a year while they were building a pretty home at 4323 Diana Way. They
were lucky to get a home on Diana Way named after their oldest daughter.
At that time they brought home the next little boy, Jeffrey Hunter, then
a little girl, Laurie Brynn, then another little girl Holly Brooke.
Marjorie had multiple sclerosis and had been getting progressively more
handicapped Her next two
children were born while she was in a wheelchair
– Christopher Blake
and Rebecca Jill. She has many talents. When she was young she was a
good skier, artist, dancer and model and also an excellent pianist. She
is a good home executive and disciplinarian.
VERNE
Our oldest son Verne came back from the war and
attended the University of Utah and received a BA degree in English. He
later studied at Harvard and at New York University until he entered the
University of Maryland Medical School. After graduation he lived at Fort
Washington on Long Island and studied psychiatry. He practiced there
until 1967 when he moved back to Salt Lake City and set up offices in
St. Mark’s Hospital. He and his wife Judy Eagle have two sons, John
and David.
Verne used to work as a bagger boy while still in high school. He
used his money to study flying at the Kemp and Kelsie Flying School at
the old Salt Lake Airport. He didn’t tell us he was taking flying
lessons. Once, when we thought he was studying after school singing in
Lyle Bradford’s a capella chorus at East High School, he phoned up and
said excitedly, “Mother, mother, I soloed today.” I answered, “I
didn’t know Lyle Bradford would let you solo!”
He answered “Oh., Mother don’t you know? There are three
important things in life –
you are born, you die, and you solo fly!!!” He was only 16
years old but he could solo fly. That was something I really loved Verne
for!
FRED
When Fred was a 4-year old boy he made up words. He
called my soups “gaggedy” when he didn’t seem to like them.
If he didn’t like something he would say, “It isn’t my
favorite.”
In first grade he didn’t want to learn the Dick
and Jane books that he read. They were too dull. He would try to read
big medical books. But in the fourth grade he finally was convinced that
reading was necessary and now he is an avid reader and printer.
Fred used his GI bill money to study printing at Los Angeles Trade
and Technical School and at the Morganflower Printing School in New York
City. He is now president of a small printing organization in Applegate,
California. He never married.
INVENTIONS
We didn’t have a radio or television when I was a
girl. When we came home at night, we read books. My father had an early
evening off once a week, and I remember he would gather us together and
would read aloud to us after we had our evening meal around the dining
room
table. I
remember especially one story he read to us called The Beauty of the
Purple. And it was a beautiful love story about Aspesia.
We enjoyed it so much and couldn’t wait for the next chapter.
We were tempted to read ahead, but we waited for Dad to come home and
read it to use Those were our family home evenings and they were
wonderful!!!
I remember well the invention of radio. My brother Stuart had an
inventive mind and studied the workings of radio. He made our first
radio by wrapping copper wire around an empty Quaker Oats box and
hooking it up to a $5 earphone set and some kind of a little crystal
that touched the wires. Later
we used the bed springs for our antennas.
KSL was the only broadcasting station.
It was owned by the Church and the talent was just the local
people around Salt Lake that would sing on the program. One night I came
home and turned on the radio
and tuned in and heard the
announcer say, “We will now hear ‘Let Me Call You Sweetheart, I’m
in Love With You’ requested by Marjorie Gallacher.
I hadn’t requested it, and somebody was just playing a joke on
me, and I was so embarrassed!
Dr. Peterson and I used to enjoy reading together
at night. He had an extensive library and enjoyed reading old favorites
with me. We didn’t have a
television or a radio, but we enjoyed this pastime together. In those
days, we didn’t have an answering service and that way we could get
our own calls. I later got a
little girl to live in our back room to help answer the phone and tend
the kids, and do the evening dishes. She attended LDS Business College
and studied until 4 and then walked home to help me – all for only $5
a week, plus her room and board. When
we moved by the University, we got University girls and boys.
That way we always had a good answering service.
WORLD WAR II
During World War II many of my nieces and nephews went to the war.
The girls went as nurses, and the boys went as pilots and as foot
soldiers to the South Pacific or to Europe.
Every able-bodied person at home did volunteer work. Food and
gasoline were rationed, we had school children gather tin cans and scrap
iron. We saved grease drippings from our cooking and collected it; and
then we took it to a certain place to be used for war effort. We tried
to cheer our soldiers on with courageous songs and programs. We were so
united fighting for freedom and democracy in the world. No sacrifice was
too great. Utah made parts for battleships and submarines. Utah had
great air bases. Utah had Bushnell Hospital for evacuation of war-weary
soldiers coming out of the South Pacific. I worked there at the USO and
also in the Utah USO in Salt Lake. I
taught those sick soldiers art lessons and other skills to take their
minds off the horrors of the war. They
had just been flown from the South Pacific. Oh, there were too many
heartbreaking memories of that war!!!
Then came the Korean War not too many years after. Yes, by this time we
were so sick of war and rumors of war. My own two sons were so young I
thought they could get a year of college in before they went to war.
But Uncle Sam said no and the draft board said no.
There was much anxiety among young men. They tried to study hard
at school the draft hung like the sword of Damocles over their heads.
Our older boy wanted to study medicine. He started fall quarter at the U
of U, after spending one year at Pepperdine College in Los Angeles.
But some man phoned me from the SLC draft board, and said that
our son would be drafted and the next day his name was at the top of the
list, unless he went down and enlisted immediately. When Verne heard
this, he rushed out to the old Salt Lake Airport and enlisted in the Air
National Guard. He was
quickly activated and sent to Olathe, Kansas in one of the worst
Mississippi River floods. There he learned radar and was the ham
operator for the bases.
When his term was nearly up, the officers took him and his buddies
to dinner and talked them into signing up for jet pilot training,
telling them they were high on all the tests. They were to go and enlist
in the USAF before their enlistment was up in the air national guard.
They went to St. Angelo, Texas and Big Springs, Texas and got their jet
training. After training nearly a year, Verne graduated and a week after
graduation was assigned to Korea. He received training for a few weeks
in Las Vegas. We visited him once there, but he only had a few moments
to be with us. Later, Fred
flew down with me to see Verne depart at Walnut Creek, California. We
had breakfast with him at the Officers Club, but afterwards he was
notified that all jet pilots must leave immediately and we never saw him
again until after the Korean war was over.
Fred had one quarter at BYU and one at the U of U
and then he was drafted and left for 6 weeks training in California and
Texas. Then he was flown by
air to Korea stopping over a half hour at the SLC airport long enough to
say a quick goodbye.
SADNESS
I lost my sweetheart on October 19, 1966 when we
were back in New York We went to a convention in Boston and then on over
to New Hampshire to my aunt’s home. My aunt had died but her daughter
was still running that big estate and they wanted us to come up where my
husband who loved golf, could play on their private golf course.
We first went to New York to be with our oldest son Verne for a
short time. Then Verne drove
us to Boston where we went to the medical convention. They honored Dr.
Peterson for his many, many years of devoted service to the medical
profession. Then he went with a slight cold over to New Hampshire where
my cousin, Connie Constant, took us to their estate.
We thought we would have a wonderful time over there but in 3
days he died of a severe pneumonia.
We put him in a hospital in Wolfboro on Lake Winnepesake, the town
near Province, Rhode Island where she lived.
But it was too small a hospital for good care and he died in 3
days.
Verne came from Port Washington, NY, where he
practiced psychiatry, and took me home where we had his funeral the
following Saturday in SLC. He
had many many patients and friends who loved him dearly and who paid him
honor – even the Governor
of the State, Herbert Maw and Ned Winder and William Walker’s son
Keith Walker paid tribute to him at his funeral. While I was saddened
greatly by his loss, I have now lived 14 years without him and I keep
that memory of that beautiful marriage and that beautiful life with him.
I was with him 41 years and I had 3 lovely children.
HOBBIES
I have many hobbies. I enjoy painting china and
have done so since before I was married, and I fire it.
I enjoyed watercolor painting with my husband. We studied with
DeAnna McDonald and really enjoyed the relaxation this afforded. We
often painted together with our grandchildren and taught them many art
concepts. I also enjoyed
working with oil and painted a huge picture of Christ resurrected.
Arnold Frieberg came and spent an evening helping me put sunlight in the
background.
I took lessons from sculptors far three years from Torfiet Knaphas
and Avaard Fairbanks, Jonathan Fairbanks and Florence Peterson Hansen,
and finally produced a little pioneer figurine which was sort of an
official pioneer doll during the Centennial of the Days of 47. The
governors had a national convention in SLC on July 24th of 1947 and each
Governor’s wife was given one of these figurines.
At the Lion House I was asked to tell why I made the figurine and
I told all the governors’ wives that it represented my dear
grandmother, Magdalena Schneider who loved her religion enough to leave
parents and family and homeland to come to Zion to this beautiful family-making
valley where all the pioneers united to build an empire, a center where
her religion could be lived and shared.
My grandchildren are also a big hobby of mine, I
have tried to faithfully support all of their athletic endeavors.
I also have enjoyed letter writing to those on missions and
giving them counsel.
CHURCH ACTIVITY
All my life I liked Primary.
In the 2nd Ward I used to teach before I even had a position,
before I got married. When I
got married I was first counselor to the primary president, and Florence
Beuhler Maw, the wife of the governor later, was the president. Then I
had a baby and I taught the Trailbuilders.
I stayed with the boys for many years. When I got up to the
University Ward, they asked me to be President for a couple of years,
but then I went back to teaching Trailbuilders.
In the Monument Park Ward I worked with the CTR children and I
loved them. lt.s a great experience to teach children who are about to
join the Church and to teach them how great an experience it is to join
the Church. I did have a while when I worked in the Mutual with the
University Ward and I worked in the Sunday School in the University Ward
because my husband was superintendent for 5 years.
I enjoy being a churchgoer. I like to go and enjoy talking with my
friends. I feel by going I am lifted so I can go on for the rest of the
week. I do love my Church.
Two of my grandchildren went on missions for the Church, Diana
Barton Webb went on a mission to Hong Kong after she graduated from the
U of U Magna Cum Laude and taught junior high school 4 years. Jeffrey
Hunter Barton went to Madrid Spain on a mission, and was financial
secretary there.
On my 74th Birthday my granddaughter Diana wrote an ODE TO
MARJORIE G. PETERSON and that sums up my life pretty well. . .
The month was August
The day – eleven
When a wonderful bundle
Arrived from heaven
‘Twas John and Mary
Who in nineteen-o-four
Were blessed with a baby
A girl to adore!
They named her Margie
And watched her grow tall
She was so sweet and good
And helpful to all!
Her family worked hard
And taught her the truth
She loved all her sisters
Anna, Berta and Ruth
One day at age twelve
She went to go skating
Who dreamed her friend’s brother
One day she’d be dating!
She worked on the railroad
For one Mr. Orem
Vacations were many
And how she’d adore ‘em.
When her brother Stu
Got a mission call
Margie worked and saved
And gave him her all.
One day a physician
Came into her life
On the sixth day of June
He made her his wife!
How happy they were!
So in love. . . and this led
To the entrance of Margie
And of Verne and of Fred.
Now Margie kept busy
Days - she’d cook and she’d scrub
Nights - she’d be entertaining
The Merry-Go-Round Club
As if that wasn’t enough
She’d serve on committees
For mental health and for church
And for renters in cities.
For diversion she’d paint
And play golf and crochet
Paint plates and make quilts
And form dolls out of clay.
Then along came the grand kids
And oh what a list;
Two Dave’s, John, Jeff, Rick,
Beck, Laur, Hol, Di and Chris.
When we need her help
Gram is always around
When she nurses and tends
Love and good food abound
When it comes to love letters
You’ll find no neglect.
They’re signed “Love, Gram,
With love and respect.”
Old age slow her down?
I’m afraid you’re mistaken
She’s practicing hard
The karate she’s taken.
On every occasion
She’s right there to feed us
Her angel food cakes
In her lime green Adidas.
Where to find her? Let’s
see –
She’s toting her golf cart?
More likely she’s browsing
The aisles of K-Mart!
Now it’s August eleventh
And you’re seventy-four.
Gram, we’d just like to tell you –
YOU’RE THE ONE WE ADORE!!!
PHILOSOPHY OF LIFE
When I asked my granddaughter Laurie what she first
remembered about me, she said that she remembered loving to come to stay
overnight at my house because I had the very tall poster beds and made
her feel very special. She
said that I made her feel like I really cared about her and what she was
doing and what she liked to do. She said, “You listened to us a long
time. You seemed to
understand us, and that is what we like about you.” When I asked her
what else she remembered she said she remembered my funny jokes and
funny poems that seemed so interesting. She said that when she became a
teenager she remembered one or two poems that I used to tell that seemed
to say in words what she was feeling inside.
“It takes two for a kiss, one for a sigh,
Twain by twain we marry, one by one we die,
Joy is a partnership, grief weeps alone.
There were many guests at Cana, Gethsemane but
one.”
The
granddaughters Diana, then Laurie, Holly and Becky, in turn remember
that I made one special poem apply to them, and that was a poem one to
tell them to be good in a certain way.
“Diana, dear, don’t think me queer when I suggest most
tritely,
That when your beau gets up to go, just show him
out politely.
And never more step out the door as if to keep him
longer,
His love for you if good and true will thus be made
the stronger.
For men of worth and noble birth, pursue a maid
with pleasure.
But if she’s one without this fun, she is too
cheap to treasure.”
Another went like this:
“Thank you for the flowers you sent, she said,
And blushed and hung her head.
I’m sorry for the words I said last night,
And your sending the flowers proved you were right.
He forgave, and as they walked beneath the summer bowers,
He wondered who the hell sent her those flowers.”
Laurie and the other grandchildren remembered that when they were
preschool age and would come to visit me, I would teach them how to
print the ABC’s and also how to do cursive writing. I was very, very
anxious to have them be good at writing because writing well meant a
great deal in life. I notice
that all my grandchildren write really wells so some good came from
visiting me.
As I talked to Laurie, she said that her strongest
memory of me was of me listening to her in her young days.
Listening to her interests and activities as she grew into
schooldays and activity in the Church and how she liked piano lessons
and all the little things that come with growing up, All the
grandchildren have needed to know that I really cared how they were
progressing. Chris and David tell me yet that I helped to make them well
when they were sick and perhaps my little remedies did help them.
Perhaps of most help was my little feeling that
everything was going to be all right, like the great poem by Robert
Browning says:
“Morning’s at seven,
The hillside’s dew-pearled,
God’s in His heaven,
All’s right with the world.”
And it is! If we love others, we will have love returned to us.
If I leave them any message at all it is to love and never to
hate. If you hate, you have
an enemy. And your enemy is
yourself because if you hate your hurt yourself.
So don’t hate, just love and love as Jesus loved and taught us
to love. Forgive and be kind. If you say anything, ask yourself three
question . . .
Is it true? Will it hurt? Is it necessary?
If it doesn’t seem necessary, even it is true don’t say it.
There are too many hurts in the world.
Be one to give love and kindness all your days. I hope I have
given this thought to my grandchildren. There is a poem I used to say to
the older grandchildren, that I want to share with my
great-grandchildren..
“Be good sweet maid, and let who will be clever.
Do noble deeds, and don’t dream them all day
long,
And thus make life, death, and the vast forever one
grand sweet song!!”
Life is full of lots of ups and downs. There will be lots of
downs, but there will be more ups because our blessings are more
numerous than our heartaches. Even
though you go through a period when you might have heartache, you’ll
find that it is good to count your blessing. “Count your blessings,
not your golf strokes.”
Pray constantly, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
Pray in your heart, pray on your way to work, pray on your way to play,
pray for protection from wrongdoing and wrongdoers. We can be guilty of
both, but let’s not have guilt, but lets have love in our heart. If we
do something wrong, let’s quickly right it. Let’s quickly tell
others how much we want to do for them.
If we spend our energies in serving others, we’ll quickly
forget our own ailments. We
will think constantly of the welfare of others, which is true
Christianity. Our Heavenly
Father sent Jesus to teach us how to live, and mostly he told us how to
love and how to give, for loving and living is giving of yourself and
your talents. We learn it in our religion, and in our everyday lives.
Everyday in our lives we learn from somebody. We’re never so
important we can’t be done without, so don’t get egotistical.
But we always can learn from someone
– from the mailman
who might say some cheery word or from the milkman who might pass on a
little experience he’s had and we want to be cottager, we don’t want
to be a proud or a haughty person and at the top of the ladder all the
time.
We want to give our children a good start in life, but money
isn’t everything. The most
important thing is people. A
little girl once told the king of the Philippines, “A foreigner is a
friend I haven't met yet.” About
money, “the little that a righteous man hath, is better than the riches
of many wicked.” Remember
the slogans that I always have above my sink
– “Have your own
way and everyone will hate you” – “Ask, listen and understand” –
That helps you through life.
Everybody wants to be listened to and understood.
“Never criticize, condemn or complain.” One great man said,
“In all thy getting, get understanding.” That’s such a secret to
living a good life.
Love is a magic word. It’s
wonderful in romances. That’s
the beautiful part of life. I’ve
known it because I was so
happily in love with a wonderful husband.
He loved me dearly and was true to me all the days of his life.
I also have a testimony of the love that Jesus had for us.
I believe in my religion. My
church has taught me many things and I love it dearly and
those who help it to run.
I am slow to learn but I am learning every day of my life.
All these years I have learned something every day.
If I quit learning, then that’s stopping progress.
I believe in eternal life, eternal progression.
Even when we die, we are going to progress for eternity. We have a
chance to make it a beautiful eternal life if we live right in this life.
So let’s all try for that. For
my children, my grandchildren and my great-grandchildren, “ Let’s try
for eternal life!” For the
Lord has said, “This is my work and my glory, to bring to pass the
immortality and eternal life of man.” |